I used to know it would be a good night when my husband came home
and said, ”Honey, I smell your haluski and it smells SO good.” Just what every woman wants to hear
after a long day at the office. But since we’ve had children—only one of whom
will eat the Polish cabbage and noodle dish—carefully picking out the chunks of
cabbage—I can only yearn for the days of eating supper and “letting the dishes
go. ”
I have often secretly wondered if my husband fell in love with me
a little because of my haluski. Oh, I know there’s more to me than that. But
I‘ll always remember the spark I saw when he first took a bite of it when were
we dating—back in the days that I had the luxury of frying the cabbage in a
cast iron skillet in real butter. Now, since we are frantic middle-aged
parents, we can barely fit in steaming our cabbage
and boiling our whole-wheat noodles between
homework, soccer games, and carpool to ballet lessons.
I grew up eating haluski—another one of the Western Pennsylvania
mainstays of my
youth. It's just cabbage and noodles, with butter. You can fry the cabbage, as my mother
insists is the best way. (See
the Kitchen Queen rules.)
You can also boil it, or steam it, which is how I make it. It gives the cabbage a subtler flavor, and
your arteries might thank you for it later. My mother thinks its impolite to
talk about arteries
and food in the same conversation, and when the topic of frying anything in
butter comes up, she likes to say, “All things in moderation,” meaning “Go ahead
and fry the cabbage in real butter, hon, it won’t hurt you.”
(Photo by Jennifer Causey http://www.jennifercausey.com.)
I
love the way my husband loves my haluski. By the time I met Eric, I had my fill
of dating men who wanted to impress me with their knowledge of French food,
wine, or truffles—not that there’s any thing wrong with that perfectly fine food,
but it’s hardly the kind of food from which to form a relationship.
Haluski
is exactly the kind of food on which good relationships can be based. If you
fall on hard times, it’s a dish you can rely on— it’s cheap and fairly
nutritious. When family life gets harried, and it’s difficult to find the time
to have a meal together—there’s always quickly put-together haluski. When you
need a good dish for a potluck to share with friends and extended family, there’s
haluski.
My
mother recently confided to me that my father—a man who sprang from the
Appalachian coalmines and farm fields—did not appreciate haluski when they were
married. He was a man who wanted cast-iron fried potatoes at least twice week,
along side any kind of meat and vegetable. She tried to harness all of her
creativity and curiosity to create a meat and potatoes
lifestyle for him—and she did so willingly. But the truth is some of my parents
worst disagreements were, indeed, about food.
Funny,
how time mellows people. I can’t imagine Dad turning his nose up at any dish,
let alone haluski, that my stepmother would set on the
table in front of him. And I can’t imagine that my mother would even try to
squash any of her own culinary impulses to satisfy anybody
else. She lives alone and likes it that way.
Mom
still makes huge pots of haluski and eats it for days. Sometimes even for
breakfast. At this point in my life, I prefer to live with my husband, a man
who appreciates a good, earthy, haluski every now and then, but I am not sure
just what he would think about haluski in the morning—at least not before
coffee.
Is there a special dish you can relate to your relationship?
Haluski
If you don't
have the time or patience to make your own noodles, you can substitute
prepackaged wide noodles, such as egg noodles. Remember, you can steam the
cabbage and add the butter or margarine in when the noodles are drained and
ready.
1 egg
2 cups flour
Salt
1 teaspoon, milk
1 medium onion
1 cabbage
Beat your egg
well. Stir in 2 cups of flour and a pinch of salt. Gradually add 1 teaspoon of
milk, continuing to stir as you go, until the dough is stiff. Roll out thin
(1/8-inch thick) on a floured board. Cut dough into 1-inch by 2-inch strips.
Drop the strips,
one at a time, into a pot of boiling water and cook for 3 minutes. Drain, rinse
and let dry. While the noodles are drying, saute 1 medium chopped onion in a
tablespoon of butter. Chop a head of cabbage into thin strips, add to the
onion, and cook until tender. Add the noodles to the cabbage and stew for about
30 minutes.
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